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| 05 Wed | Cynic, Atheist (feat Jerry Witunsky of Ancient Death on guitar), Poh Hock |
Sonia (Cambridge, MA) |
| 01 Tue | give consideration to the '3
(the specific Frisky) First thing one morning I got a text from one of my friends, The kind I get nearly always: "Met my husband to be last night, My response was my the norm one: "Get back to me in weeks,
If I've learned one valuable thing from the dating whirligig I've been on going back six years (Give or take six months here or certainly there), It's that you must wait at least three months before looking towards the long term possibilities of a new person.
I don't need to sound cynical or jaded. I totally believe in love for myself and my girlftriend, But what I believe in more is that it takes a really long time to get to know someone and it's a complicated process. Whirlwind romances were very popular these days for me in 1997, But I'm older and wiser now. And not anymore wear red velvet leopard charmingdate.com print pants.
The first three months of knowing someone is a time of illusions. Instead of seeing the person objectively, You see them for who you would like them to be. Your object of desire is laden with fantasies and projections. I think it takes about three months to strip away the layers and start to see this person for who they are really.
I can't even count how frequent that I or a friend started dating someone and days or even weeks later found out there was something seriously messed up about him.
"oh yea, you haven't been in love and you're 35, "also, You just got out of a 10 year intimate last week, "goodness me, You don't ever desire children, "ohio, You're mentally volatile,
The more and less obvious developments about another are made in that three month period. That's stuff you should know before you move forward.
of course, I think three months gives you enough time to see if the new person in life is consistent. Do they call when they say they will? will they cancel dates? Do they even have plenty of time for dates? Do they want to hang out once a week or six times a week and does that mesh with what you're looking for? How can they treat you after a month? Any major arguments on fundamental things? How do they behave in numerous situations?
The being compatible check list is endless. You need those three months to gather the data you need to decide if you want this person in your life for the next three months.
each of our Frisky: 10 best tips for dating online
With all the disappointments that can come along with dating, I say why bother getting in a tizzy about someone who could be a Russian spy? rest room I always say to myself, To my friends, And for your requirements, personals, Check in after several weeks and tell me how great the new person you're dating is.
If everything is still coming up roses, Maybe I'll dance a jig on you. But it could take me six months to a year before I'm buying this "My husband to be" organization. |
 Turkey |
| 28 Thu | General Surgery, Birdflesh, Galvanizer, & Cynicism |
Ralph's Diner (Worcester, MA) |
| 24 Fri | Garroted, Bacterial Husk, Matriphagy, Cynicism |
Dusk (Providence, RI) |
| 03 Wed | The Chasm (Mexico), Cruciamentum (UK), Zealotry, & Cynicism |
Ralph's Diner (Worcester, MA) |
| 08 Fri | Hell Bent, Cynicism, BDSX, Distressor |
Koto Grill & Sushi, 90 Washington St, Salem, MA |
| 21 Fri | NO RAZA, Untombed, Nocuous, Cynicism & Dark Was The Night |
Jewel (Manchester , NH) |
| 17 Sat | Shabti, Brain Famine, Cynicism, Galgotha |
Geno's (Portland, ME) |
| 26 Fri | SCAPHISM (CD Release Show), BURIAL, MUCOPHAGUS, CYNICISM |
Ralph's Diner (Worcester, MA) |
| 29 Sun | Cynicism, Scaphism, Rotting Obscene, Soul Remnants |
O'Briens Pub (Allston, MA) |
| 29 Sat | Untombed,Cynicism,No Son Of Mine, Woodchipper Demise &Epicenter |
Jewel (Manchester , NH) |
| 08 Fri | Cynic, Lesser Key, The Reign of Kindo, Protean Collective |
Brighton Music Hall (Allston, MA) |
| 07 Mon | Cynic, 3, Scale The Summit |
The Palladium (Worcester, MA) |
| 05 Thu | CYNIC, INTRONAUT, DYSRHYTHMIA |
Harpers Ferry (Allston, MA) |
| 30 Sat | Cynic, Devin Townsend |
The Fillmore @ Irving Plaza (NEW YORK, NY) |
| 28 Thu | Between the Buried and Me, Cynic, The Devin Townsend Project, Scale The Summit |
House of Blues (Boston, MA) |
| 21 Fri | nuclear decay, conflagration, enough said, blood of a cynic, Excrecor, The Brethren, Kimosabi, 2 Sided Season, The project 7 |
The Alley, 887 Central Ave #B, Dover, NH |
| 10 Sun | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
The Norva (Norfolk, VA) |
| 09 Sat | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
Crocodile Rock (Allentown, PA) |
| 08 Fri | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
Northern Lights (Clifton Park, NY) |
| 07 Thu | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
Higher Ground (South Barlington, VT) |
| 05 Tue | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
Toad's Place (New Haven, CT) |
| 04 Mon | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
Lupos at the Strand (Providence, RI) |
| 02 Sat | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
The Intersection (Grand Rapids, MI) |
| 01 Fri | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
Town Ballroom (Buffalo, NY) |
| 30 Thu | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
Mr. Smalls (Millvale, PA) |
| 28 Tue | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
The Orange Peel (Ashville, NC) |
| 27 Mon | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
Newport Music Hall (Columbus, OH) |
| 26 Sun | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
Bogarts (Cincinnati, AK) |
| 25 Sat | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
The Rave (Milwaukee, WI) |
| 24 Fri | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
Pop's (Sauget, IL) |
| 22 Wed | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
Sokol Auditorium (Omaha, NE) |
| 21 Tue | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
The Venue at Playmakers (Fargo, ND) |
| 19 Sun | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
Wilma Theater (Missoula, MT) |
| 18 Sat | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
Knitting Factory (Spokane, WA) |
| 17 Fri | Cynic , Dragonforce, Daath |
Knitting Factory (Boise, IA) |
| 06 Fri | Black Mass,The Nasty,Hera,Blood of a Cynic,Enough Said,SprayPaint |
Spaulding High School 103 Wakefield St Rochester |
| 21 Sat | CANCELLED: Meshuggah, Cynic, The Faceless |
the Palladium (Worcester, Ma) |
| 20 Fri | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
Recher Theatre (Towson, MD) |
| 19 Thu | Meshuggah, Cynic, The Faceless |
The Filmore NY at Irving Plaza (New York, NY) |
| 18 Wed | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
Club Soda (Montreal, QC) |
| 17 Tue | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
Phoenix Concert Theatre (Toronto, ON) |
| 15 Sun | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
House of Blues (Chicago, IL) |
| 14 Sat | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
The Eagles Club (Milwaukee, WI) |
| 13 Fri | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
Station 4 (St. Paul, MN) |
| 12 Thu | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
People's Court (Des Moines, IA) |
| 11 Wed | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
Gothic Theatre (Englewood, CO) |
| 09 Mon | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
Knitting Factory (Spokane, WA) |
| 08 Sun | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
Commodore Ballroom (Vancouver, BC) |
| 07 Sat | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
Hawthorne Theatre (Portland, OR) |
| 06 Fri | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
El Corazón (Seattle, WA) |
| 04 Wed | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
Slim's (San Francisco, CA) |
| 03 Tue | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
House of Blues (Hollywood, CA) |
| 02 Mon | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
House of Blues (San Diego, CA) |
| 01 Sun | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
House of Blues (Anaheim, CA) |
| 09 Fri | Cynic and Antibody Division, 9PM, 18+, $5 at door |
Zachary's Bar off rte. 126 in Woonsocket,RI |
| 20 Sun | shai hulud, with honor, since by man, acacia strain, red reaction, light is the language, locked in a vacancy, every singl nerve, skies cutting stars, the breathing process, stimuli, anaophales, into the moat, minus the map, kiss the cynic, for.her.i.can.be.a.hero, black book diaries |
Fat Cat's (Springfield, Ma) |
| | Shai Hulud, With Honor, Since By Man, Acacia Strain, Dasai, Every Single Nerve, Light Is The Language, Sky Cutting Stars, Blackbook Diaries, Breathing Process, Stimuli, Anaophales, Minus The Map, Kiss The Cynic, Into The Moat, For Her I Can Be A Hero |
Fat Cat's (Springfield, Ma) |
| 08 Sun | CANCELLED: In Pieces, Dysrhythmia, On The Might Of Princes, The Warren Commission, Kiss The Cynic, $6, 7pm |
UCONN Hillel (Storrs, CT) |
| 26 Sat | Ed Gein, Kiss the Cynic, Umbrella, Bodies in the Gears of the Apparatus, Newandyke, Marrakech, Sycamore Dreams |
Jimi's Club, Asbury Park, NJ |
| 02 Sat | The Red Chord, Kiss the Cynic(ex luddite clone), Shading the End, eyes like autumn, The Gacey Prospect, heldhostage, letters from the dead, more tba |
@ the Salem Elks -- 17 North Street -- Salem, MA |
| | The Red Chord, Kiss the Cynic(ex luddite clone), Shading the End, eyes like autumn, The Gacey Prospect, heldhostage, letters from the dead, more tba |
Salem Elks (Salem, MA) |
| 31 Wed | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
House of Blues (Anaheim, CA) |
| | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
House of Blues (San Diego, CA) |
| | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
House of Blues (Hollywood, CA) |
| | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
Slim's (San Francisco, CA) |
| | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
El Corazón (Seattle, WA) |
| | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
Hawthorne Theatre (Portland, OR) |
| | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
Commodore Ballroom (Vancouver, BC) |
| | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
Knitting Factory (Spokane, WA) |
| | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
Gothic Theatre (Englewood, CO) |
| | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
People's Court (Des Moines, IA) |
| | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
Station 4 (St. Paul, MN) |
| | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
The Eagles Club (Milwaukee, WI) |
| | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
House of Blues (Chicago, IL) |
| | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
Phoenix Concert Theatre (Toronto, ON) |
| | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
Club Soda (Montreal, QC) |
| | Cynic, Meshuggah, The Faceless |
Recher Theatre (Towson, MD) |
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